Hildith is anxious to survive the Half-orcs hoping to put Grimslade to the torch.
'The half-orcs are bold to attack the city where my husband is Thane. The Helmingas are loyal to Grimbold, and will fight to the death to keep Grimslade's walls standing!'
Hildith is in the Mead Hall at Grimslade.
You should speak with Hildith.